Even if you're having a really hard time in a relationship like things aren't working, you're not getting along, someone's in your face - you can still can turn that relationship around. Take a piece of paper, and for the next thirty days sit down and write all the things that you appreciate about that person. Think about all the reasons that you love them, you appreciate their sense of humor, you appreciate how supportive they are. And what you'll find is that when you focus on appreciating and acknowledge their strengths, that's what you'll get more of, and the problem will fade away -- MARCI SHIMOFF.
TAKEN FROM "THE SECRET"